Thursday, 18 January 2018

Where has all the good sense gone?

Greetings,

With all the challenges ethnic minorities face in the UK, it is beyond me that a member of it, who had attained high office, could not forsee the risk of coming up with a bright idea.

It appears to me, a fundamental principle has been missed while negotiating the dizzy heights of power - how to walk the ever narrowing, thin, chalk line, and not fall off. It is clear the past has taught no lessons. Such high elevation does not eliminate obstacles, fences deeply entrenched, and bar set.

Resistance to change is still high on the popularity ratings.

Entering the political territory puts one face to face with the status quo. Therefore, it should be understood, what the position is on the inside.

I can only hope reflection on the matter will bring about a return to common sense, as we wait, in the long distant future, for history to be recorded again.

Peace

Grace

Monday, 15 January 2018

A Narrow parameter

Greetings,

Life has its highs and lows. Stress filled moments. Cliff hanging experiences. Easy going times where everything is alright with the world, and 'Thank God I'm alive!' days.

Above all this chapter, there is one thing that niggles me, and in my opinion has no justification - the perceived entitlement of some to predetermine the future of folk regardless of their ambitions, feelings, objections, etc., etc., etc.

How dare anybody dictate what you should aspire to be. Listen, if one cannot accept another persons choice because one does not agree with it, let it be. If the choice involves risk, give constructive guidance and send them on their way rejoicing for a successful outcome.

Trying to box in, or even worse, block the hopes and dreams of others is to 'turbocharge' them to defy the odds, restore self-esteem, and prove their detractors wrong. It is destructive to deliberately discourage the intention and objectives of an individual. That individual may turn out to be a highly skilled and productive member of society.

Now, let us not get confused with, or excuse, sheer stupidity, failing to think things through, or outright refusal to accept the opinion, and record the mobile position of others. However, all, or part of the above may be taken with either a positive approach as part of healthy robust exchange, or be dismissed completely.

I am saying, allow people to be what they want to be, and to achieve their dream. Who knows, others thirst for success may awaken you out of your lackadaisical/complacent/indifferent attitude to life, and spur you on to fulfill your true potential.

Never set narrow parameters for others, negatively, to suit your ego. The only success in that is to end up within that narrow parameter yourself.

Peace

Grace

Monday, 20 November 2017

Respect

Greetings,

Respect.

A simple word.
Not always understood.
It is demanded without question by some. In reality, it should be earned.

This reality is laughed at by those who see themselves above humility, and will only respect those who, in their eyes, are worthy of recognition and appeal to the aesthetic sense.

Okay, you say, so what's wrong with that?
Well, nothing, if that's how you feel...but the reasoning is flawed.

How so?

What about the dedicated contribution of those in the background who keep the wheels of industry turning, whose skills cannot be replaced?
It was thought the good times would last forever so they did not matter.

Those who are well educated and highly skilled, but it is believed for one reason or another they are not suitable, or just will not be able to fit in.

Consider the respectful and law abiding citizen who is dismissed and treated with disdain by virtue of their hue, custom, heritage, or religion, yet can play a significant role in the development of a country. The main reason for giving one's all is because the purpose is believed in. This can change quickly, because of disrespect.

Commitment to the cause wanes. Sometimes there is the need to escape the chains of nothingness, because one is not to be seen, never mind be heard.

Lack of respect can have a debilitating effect on the economy of a country.  Loss of manpower, skills, intellect, all because of a disregard for respect. When one has worked their heart out knowing that they are playing a pivotal role, but feel like they do not belong, it creates the feeling that their time has been wasted, and worst of all their abilities have been used for the benefit of others.

I suppose respect will be learned by some,  others will never learn, while the bewildered are just waking up to the concept with a bittersweet taste.

Property, land, and money all have its value, and can be a demonstration of wealth; but nothing can buy an excuse to justify disrespect for another human being.

We need to change the way we treat each other. This does not mean that we should compromise with those who are brutal and inhumane, that is another matter.

The bottom line is this. We all have a part to play in this world. We all may not dance to the same tune, or agree on every issue. Nevertheless, let us try to be civil, learn about, understand, and tolerate one another for the common good.

Peace

Grace



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Monday, 18 April 2016

To stay, or not to stay, that is the question

Greetings,

The brouhaha going on at this time in Britain, is about whether it should remain in a reformed European Union, or to leave it completely.

I am an expatriate of the United Kingdom, and try my best to keep up to speed with the changes, and happenings, in my country of birth. On hearing of this major, controversial, and much publicized issue, I have decided, bravely, to make my small contribution to the discussion.

 In this interdependent, and information technological space that we live in, to go it alone, in my view, is not it. Such a move takes courage, but it is not sensible. The 'open sea' could be quite challenging. The world is very different from what it was, say 60+ years ago. The political and economic landscape then, was more conducive to consider taking that position.

To move forward, co-operation, negotiation, and sometimes compromise, is necessary for good political/economic relations, and survival. Burning bridges, believing it is possible to be an island to the exclusion of everyone else, and be free to choose preferred economic partners, is a fallacy which may lead to unforeseeable problems.

I applaud the negotiations and agreements which have taken place. It could have been otherwise.

Now there is a choice to be made in the Referendum, which is in the hands of the British people.

Moving forward, I wish Britain, and the British people, well.

Peace

Grace   

Monday, 4 April 2016

Sometimes I wonder...

Greetings,

With all the madness going on in the world today, one part in particular is no exception, I wonder if it knows where it is going. Heinous crimes, political in-fighting, missing children, mental and physical abuse, domestic violence, battling for power where there should be a common interest, economic uncertainty, are just a few of the issues on the list. Sometimes I wonder what shift has caused some human beings to think that life has no value, we can do as we like, to hell with the rest, it's my way or no way, with no concern as to how an action or actions will affect others or citizens as a whole. 

Experience is supposed to teach sound lessons, and increase knowledge.

One may think I 'live' in a goldfish bowl, far removed from reality. 

So what?

Whatever happened to the art of skillful negotiation, and diplomacy, in everyday human interactions, never mind it being more or less non-existent in some politics? Negotiation has been known to save the day at zero hour. These days it seems to be about the ability to score bonus points and oust everyone else, rather than be gracious enough to come to an agreement, or compromise for the greater good.

There appears to be no direction in anything. It is okay to call somebody's bluff and hope the individual will make a fool of him/herself. To pull a fast one over the other and think of it as a big thing. The days of deeply analysing a matter, weighing up the pros and cons prior to making a decision, or anticipating what might happen when formulating policy and making provision thereby, has been swept away, and replaced by expediency. On the flip side, pulling the carpet from under the feet of one's opponent to gain an advantage is unproductive, destructive, and futile. 

So what are we going to teach our children about civilized living?  We can start with co-operation has never hurt anyone. We can accept criticism while learning to sift the constructive from the negative. To care for others, and to consider their feelings, should be the norm . One can lead and be, authoritative, respectful, firm, understanding, and open-minded.  It takes courage, and character, to do the right thing. 

Might, is not always, Right.
Right, is, Right.
If negative antics are supposed to achieve something, it is a done deal in terms of, failure. 

I wonder when it is going to dawn on some folk that it is not about winner takes all, but where we all want to go, and how we all are going to get there, together. Regardless of different views and positions, for goodness sake, bring sanity, commonsense, decency, intelligence, and humanity, back into this thing called life, and politics.   

I'm tired of the trauma, drama, spinning wheels, going around in circles, and returning to square one, over and over again!  I just do not want to hear only, but to see,  REAL, POSITIVE, CHANGE.  


Peace

Grace  

   

Wednesday, 3 February 2016

Election time is here again!

Greetings,

The General Election is upon us in Jamaica. 

Can you imagine? 

How time flies.

Talking about flying - in great excitement, the gate was flown open, and the participants will be racing down the election course in their resplendent colours. Let there be a good sense of sportsmanship. 

I wonder who will be first past the post, and why?  

Those of us who will be watching, listening, and hopefully will enact our constitutional right and cast a vote in the ballot box, would appreciate the opportunity to feast our eyes on the issues, and realistic policies, which each wishes to present to the voting public.

The Manifesto. Remember this? I believe this matter has been raised in the public space.

Pretty colours, banter, humour, slick oratory, and even a debate has its place. I think it is time though, for the electorate to be better informed in terms of making a decision about the future of their country based on documented facts, policies, and solutions with practical implementation which can be discussed and decided on, rather than reliance on quick fixes, euphoria, endless talk leading nowhere, and die hard support. Maybe this would help to increase voter turn out. Maybe this would help those on the campaign trail to have a greater sense of purpose, and turn promises into concrete objectives to the satisfaction of the ever observant and sceptical Joe Public.      

Do not underestimate the electorate. They have come a long way through the political maze. They are long past the feel good 'Pork Barrel Politics'. Unfortunately, some are still having great difficulty understanding this reality.  

A political manifesto may not be choice reading for some folk. However, the meat of the matter from both sides, and others who are entering the race, is needed.  The participants should be aware that the 'X' on the ballot sheet to take the winner past the post will hold the next Government accountable to the people of Jamaica.

Wishing Jamaica a successful, and peaceful, General Election Campaign 2016.

Peace

Grace 


Wednesday, 6 May 2015

The DNA Saga

Greetings,

Finally, the much anticipated DNA Legislation has been tabled in the House of Representatives, in Jamaica. 

I said in my latest tweet "What a long wait!!!!!". At the same time, it is better to wait than to make a hasty decision based on facts that are not in the interests of, and/or relevant, to a Caribbean jurisdiction, then face the consequences of that decision further down the road. However, it cannot be denied that the island of wood and water needs an effective crime reduction strategy to deal with its everlasting problem.

Although it may take some time, I hope the debate in the House will be constructive, informative, and productive.

Let us keep the faith.

Peace

Grace